I haven't blogged here for almost a year because of the workshops/seminar that I have attended. Most of my entries in this blog are those you could call, "Victim Stories". Stories wherein you felt helpless and a victim of circumstance.

Recently, the man I wanted to hand from a tree has become a friend. We were no longer dating but remained nice to each other whenever we did bump into each other. Sadly, I caught him lying to me about his current affairs. He would ask me if I was committed to someone and who I was seeing. I was always candid about it. And as I have always been...I was dating but not committed. Naturally, I would ask him back. And he would claim the same. Upon stumbling upon one of his "networking" sites I discovered that the girl he was just dating was actually his girlfriend. The girl calls him baby and posts pictures of them together and the gifts they exchange. I was furious. I wasn't furious he had a girlfriend per se. I was just furious he wouldn't admit it to me.

It took me a while for me to forgive him and become my friend because of what happened in the past. I don't see the point of lying when I told him before that I don't intend to hang out with him anymore. It's so frustrating. My friends tell me its because he still wants to hang out and he knows telling me he did have a girlfriend would actually kill the chance of that happening. Oh well. Some scumbags never change. Too bad I liked this one.